Start Dating another race

Dating another race

But an intriguing new study of online dating by sociologist Kevin Lewis at the University of California, San Diego, and published by the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences suggests that people might be limiting their choices out of a fear that they’re not attractive to other races.

Our joy in our relationships, ANY relationship, must come from the surprise and delight of finding someone we have a spiritual, mental and emotional connection to. Choosing someone to love and someone to care about you should be your first priority, not race.

There are no particular advantages to choosing a partner of a different race just to experience a new joy per se that I can think of offhand.

(MORE: Love Isn’t Color-Blind: White Online Daters Spurn Blacks) The preferences weren’t immutable, however.